Why do great women pick TERRIBLE men? Those smart, beautiful, stunning women who give in so much, and what do they get? They get part-timers, indecisive, irresponsible individuals or even players in return. The real reason you don’t get the love that you deserve is not because of how much you weigh, how you look, or even how you acted on a date. It isn’t because you said the wrong things or over laughed when nothing was really funny. It also isn’t because you texted the guy after the date to thank him, talked too much or spilled all your secrets.
And while your friends see that your relationship is unhealthy, and your rational mind does too, you just can’t seem to get out. You know deep down inside that the person is not right for you, but you make justifications and excuses over and over again. You stay. You try even harder!
Why does this happen? Let me break it down to you: You picked the kind of guy who would leave you before you even went out on that date. Before you even got to meet this man, your heart was looking for some heartache.
But why do we pick the wrong people? Why don’t we settle for good guys? We are usually bored with nice guys and crave attention from guys who challenge us. We find men with dark personalities attractive. How many of us have friends who fell for the “Bad boy”, I am sure you will recall quite a few! A lot of us think that we will never have chemistry with someone “nice” and that could very well be true. Why? It simply serves our ego. Maybe we are always looking for the passion, intensity and love we see in movies and read in books that we forgot this is NOT what happens in the real world!
What to do when you find yourself incredibly attracted to a man? You feel the chemistry and the joy of feeling incredibly connected, and, you have some sort of blindness that allows you to overlook his flaws. Sadly, a lot of men are the wrong ones. This is exactly why you can have incredible chemistry and end up in a TERRIBLE relationship. However, you stick around because of how strong your feelings are. You’ve now discovered the real secret to why you’re in dead end relationships, you don’t attract the wrong men, you accept the wrong men.
Stop settling for less than you deserve. Stop ACCEPTING the bad behavior of the wrong men. Save yourself years of heartbreak and pain.